A Strategic Partnership Proposal · 2026

Partner with She & HER

The net-new engine for the platform that wins my partnership.
From  Desirée Mayon, CEO and founder, She & HER For  The platform leadership evaluating this The one number  Net-new customers
01
The Offer

Every SMB platform has the same hardest problem: net-new.

Your sales floor is built to farm the base, not hunt new customers — and the markets with the most net-new upside are the ones your acquisition engine can't reach efficiently. I'm choosing one platform to go all-in with, as a strategic partner and consultant. The winner gets a founder who delivers net-new customers in exactly those markets — with a proven conversion method, a real pipeline, and a live case study running on your own stack. Here's what that partner gets.

Pipeline

An ICP-aligned flow of qualified small businesses — companies, not clicks — from communities your acquisition can't touch.

A method

Behavioral-economics conversion — the lever that turns free and curious into paid, proven at scale (Section 03).

Reach

Founder-dense stages and networks in the millions, where a peer referral converts the way trust converts.

A case study

A live launch on your stack, documented as a repeatable proof your sales floor can hand any prospect.

How to read this

I go deep with one partner — this isn't a broadcast, it's a choice. Everything below is platform-agnostic on purpose: it's what I bring to the table, and it's built around the only metric that moves the needle for a platform your size — net-new units, and the conversion behind them.

02
Who I Am

A technical founder who has done this before — at scale.

She & HER is a community-based dating app for the sapphic community — women who love women — that launched at NYC Pride on June 28 as the only brand carrying the official NYC Pride logo, with national press. But the reason this partnership works isn't the app; it's who's behind it.

Built, not bought

Desirée Mayon is a data scientist and product leader with 15+ years in ML across Google, Microsoft/Xbox, Etsy, and Nordstrom — the platform is engineered in-house.

Backed infrastructure

Active partner in NVIDIA Inception, AWS Activate, and Google for Startups Cloud — the startup programs of three of the largest tech companies in the world.

Lean by design

A ~10-person team with an external brand studio — exactly the profile of the small, high-reach operator your tools were built to serve, running the whole stack from the inside.

“It's not about my reach. It's about the spaces I'm already in — full of small businesses that need exactly what you sell, and don't yet know it.”

03
The Method — The How

The how has a name: behavioral economics.

Every platform reads the funnel data. None of them layer behavioral economics on top — asking about affordability and fit conversationally, in a way that reads culture and feeling, not just numbers. That's what converts free and curious into paid, in markets a cold funnel can't reach. It's the single biggest lever on net-new that nobody in your category is pulling.

Proof it works — at Xbox scale

At Xbox, Desirée worked on converting Xbox Cloud Gaming (xCloud) users from free trials into paid Game Pass across emerging markets — the same regions Microsoft pushed cloud gaming into (India, Latin America, and beyond) specifically to remove the $300–500 console barrier. The lever wasn't discounting; it was rewriting the onboarding questions with cultural and behavioral context so people converted willingly. The response from leadership was, essentially — "I didn't think of it like that."

The evidence: how you ask moves the number

This isn't a hunch. Decades of behavioral-economics research show that reframing the ask — not the offer — is one of the largest levers on conversion there is.

42%→82%
conversion when a choice is reframed from opt-in to opt-out — same people, same offer, only the framing (Johnson & Goldstein, Science, 2003)
+23%
conversion lift from adding social proof — cited as the most powerful principle in e-commerce conversion
+20%
sales lift from framing a price as "savings" rather than a discount — pure framing, same dollars
04
The Reach

Where the net-new comes from — and why the room is the floor.

Each source below is a set of trusted nodes in a high-trust, culturally-aligned community, not a list of impressions. Tap each to expand.

Partner Network — active now

5 metros · 50+ events/yr+
A working roster across NYC, Houston, Atlanta, Oakland, and Chicago — venues, event producers, creative agencies, and LGBTQ+-owned SMBs collectively running 50+ events a year, each with its own local customer base. Local service and event businesses — the core SMB profile, most with no marketing stack at all.

NYC Pride — launched, banked

2M+ attendees+
Launched June 28 as the only brand carrying the official NYC Pride logo (2M+ attendees, 75,000 marchers, 60 floats — North America's largest Pride), with national press and the event's full CRM and audience data now in hand. Hundreds of LGBTQ+-owned vendors and event businesses around the parade — access already secured.

AfroTech — the anchor

40,000+ · ~3M interactions+
40,000+ in-person attendees and ~3M+ interactions across the weekend — the largest Black tech gathering in the country. Desirée is a mainstage speaker. The densest gathering of Black founders, operators, and early-stage companies anywhere — heavy SMB and entrepreneurship programming.

Lesbians Who Tech

110K community · 5K summit+
110,000-member global community; 5,000+ at the in-person summit — the largest LGBTQ+ professional event in the world. Desirée speaks. Queer founders, consultants, and startup operators — many running lean companies.

The AI Conference

5,500+ builders+
5,500+ engineers, researchers, and founders in San Francisco; Desirée speaks on production ML. Technical founders building early-stage companies — strong product, no GTM stack.

FAANG alumni networks

Tens of thousands+
Tens of thousands of big-tech alumni founders across Xoogler and ex-Microsoft/Xbox communities — concentrated in the pre-seed and seed segment, used to evaluating tools on the merits. Founder-to-founder introductions close at unusually high rates.

World Pride Amsterdam

1M+ visitors+
1M+ visitors over the two-week WorldPride programme (July 25–Aug 8, 2026); 500,000–750,000 at the Aug 1 Canal Parade — a global small-business-owner audience — with London Pride and the WNBA season running alongside.

Every number above is the floor — not the reach

A 40,000-person conference isn't 40,000 impressions — it's 40,000 trusted nodes, each carrying their network, in communities that watch and follow them. This is the behavioral economics of reach.

92%
trust a recommendation from someone they know — above every other form of advertising (Nielsen)
more likely to buy when a peer refers them; word of mouth drives 5× the sales of a paid impression
~150
close ties per person (Dunbar) — these founder nodes carry a second-degree network in the millions
05
The Net-New Lift

What the lift actually looks like.

Your cold acquisition engine spends impressions to reach strangers who don't trust you yet — expensive, low-converting, and blind to the markets with the most upside. Route the same intent through a trusted node and reframe the ask with behavioral economics, and the conversion curve bends. That gap — between a cold impression and a trusted, well-framed ask — is the net-new lift.

the same net-new intent, two ways to reach it → low COLD ACQUISITION paid impression → a stranger the lift TRUSTED NODE + BEHAVIORAL ECON peer referral → a well-framed ask 92% trust · 4× buy · 5× sales

Warmer top

Reach that arrives pre-trusted — a peer in the room, not a banner — so the same spend starts far higher up the conversion curve.

Sharper ask

Behavioral-economics framing on the offer itself — the difference between a curious visitor closing the tab and becoming a paying unit.

Compounding tail

Referred customers refer the next one. The lift isn't a spike — it's a flywheel that lowers acquisition cost every cycle.

06
The Exchange

A two-way partnership — scoped together.

This isn't a favor and it isn't a media buy. It's a strategic partner + consultant relationship: I bring the net-new engine; you bring the platform and the team to build it on. The exact shape — access, structure, terms — is ours to work out in a room, once we know we're building the same thing. Here's what each side brings to that table.

What I bring

  • A named, ICP-aligned net-new pipeline.Qualified, founder-to-founder introductions into your funnel — companies, not clicks.
  • The behavioral-economics conversion method + a live case study.The freemium→paid lever, applied to your product, documented as a repeatable playbook.
  • Event-sourced reach + a co-built demand engine.Your brand carried through my activation slate, plus co-hosted workshops that double as demand gen.

What it takes from you

  • A real seat at the table.Access to your product and engineering team, so the method gets built into the stack — not bolted on.
  • Skin in the game.A structure that treats this as a genuine engagement, not a logo swap. The specifics are a conversation, not a demand.
  • Conviction to move.The willingness to pilot fast and let the results — net-new units — make the case.

The short version

You power the stack; I deliver net-new conversions in the markets you can't reach — plus the strategy and the case study to repeat them at scale. The exact terms are ours to scope together, in the room. Not an influencer or affiliate arrangement — no sponsored posts, no payment for reach.

07
The Pilot

Start with a campaign, not a big commitment.

Companies struggle to see a thing before it exists — so we start by showing it. A campaign that proves the net-new conversion play at a dated event before anyone commits at scale. AfroTech in November (mainstage, ~3M+ interactions, dense with minority-owned SMBs) is the natural anchor; NYC Pride is already banked with the CRM data every partner needs; World Pride Amsterdam brings global reach in August. Each is a measurable net-new window with its own conversion target — so your leadership sees the units, where they came from, and exactly how they were produced, before the deal goes deep.

08
Why One

My pipeline is exclusive by nature. So I choose one.

A small business signs up for one platform, not three — which means the moment I'd promise this pipeline to competitors, it stops being worth anything to any of them. That's why this is a choice, not a broadcast. Whoever moves with the most conviction — on the strategy and the terms — gets the founder, the method, and the net-new engine. I'd rather go all-in with one partner and make them the case study everyone else wishes they'd signed.